Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Maintaining Discipline in an Islamic Home

I see many Muslims squirm over the relatively straightforward Qur'an verse (4:34) (beating a Muslim wife into submission) when talking to Westerners about Islam.

I think that disciplining of women (or lack thereof) is one of the main reasons for the social decay that the West finds itself in.

So this topic should be of interest to Muslim and non-Muslim alike.

The Question is:

Does Islam permit a man to hit his wife?

Of course, ….. But only if she doesn't do what she is told.

The beating must cease if the woman complies with her husband's demands.
Beating is also intended to be the last resort, behind verbal abuse and abandonment.

Muhammad, himself, is recorded as physically disciplining his favorite wife (from her own testimony) the child Aisha. It is not known how he treated his less-favored wives.

According to Sharia,
a husband may strike his wife for any one of the following four reasons:

- She does not attempt to make herself beautiful for him (i.e. "let's herself go")
- She refuses to meet his sexual demands
- She leaves the house without his permission or a "legitimate reason"
- She neglects her religious duties

Any of these are also sufficient grounds for divorce.

In fact, there are even some radicals that are unhappy with the newest, and most Islamic of laws that has been passed in Afghanistan that will allow a Muslim man to assert his sexual rights over his wife.

In that, if a wife refuses sex with her husband, he may first beat her into submission. If that doesn’t work, he may then starve her.

“…Law will let Afghan husbands starve wives who withhold sex..”

Thankfully, we know
that 90% of women in Afghanistan are lucky enough to have husbands that understand Allah’s laws and beat them into submission regularly, so the need to starve Muslim women on a large scale is probably not necessary:

In fact, according to the most learned of Islamic scholars, they all agree, that beating ones’ wife for withholding sex is not only allowed but encouraged (to help correct her rebellious behavior).

Let us look to the wise words of Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid, who runs the renowned and trusted site:
Islamic Question and Answers (Islam Q & A).

At this site you will find his and other well known imams FATWAS on almost any question you may have as it pertains to Islam. However, the FATWA we are interested in, is in relation to beating a Muslim wife (or FEMALE SEX SLAVE) who does not submit to her Husband’s sexual demands.

Praise Allah! Another voice of Islamic reason when it comes to the duties of a husband to beat his errant wife, and the obligation for wives to submit to male domination.

In fact, this is also echoed by famed
Australian Cleric Samir Abu Hamza, who aspouses the ETERNAL WILL of Allah, and prounces that it is :

OK to Beat Your Wife and Force Her to Have Sex!

Now, we must look at what is appropriate in terms of disciplining ones’ wife. (In the following post, I will give examples and information from scholars, imams, professors and religious authorities from throughout the Islamic world on this most important of topics.)

As stated, one must avoid the face, what could be the solution? The breasts of a woman / or girl are as tender as the testicles of a man, and even a light beating on the breasts, (especially the nipples), can be quite painful and is good for correcting a woman who has been disobedient.

When one does not know how to punish his wife, the clear answer is to follow the example of the Prophet Mohammad (pbuh), as he used this form of discipline with his child bride Aisha (his most beloved) on her breasts when she was about nine years of age.
( Muslim (4:2127) )

However, we must always remember the mercy that the Prophet Muhammed has provided believers when we consult the authentic hadiths:

In fact, with the Wisdom of Mohammad, Muslims know that if you flog (whip) your wife like a slave, you should wait for a day before having sexual intercourse with her.
(SAHIH BUKHARI Volume 7, Number 132)

Also when in doubt, I recommend electrical cables as they are a tried and tested implement of Islamic discipline.

For more information on the culture of the electrical cable (as a tool for disciplining a Muslim wife), please see the following video.

In it, a radical woman is trying to argue against the DIVINE judgment of Allah and is explaining the findings of her Study into Islamic wife beating in five Muslims countries (and in each of those countries, seven random sample areas).

What she found, she has dubbed
“ The Culture of the Electric Cable" ---as this was, throughout the Islamic world, the overwhelmingly preferred instrument of wife discipline by Muslim men.

Indeed, when following the laws of Islam the maintaining order in a Muslim home can usually be accomplished with physical discipline, however it is good to understand the obligations of a Muslim husband to correct the bad behavior of his wife.

In fact, maintaining discipline of one’s wife is very important, and there is no time when a Muslim man should allow himself to be negligent or lazy in this duty.

Thus, I am happy to report, that even women who are pregnant are not exempt from Allah’s ETERNAL will. And thankfully, the believers in Pakistan are showing their mercy by correcting their pregnant wives attitudes and behavior:

(1 million Pakistani women abused during pregnancy:
Expert LAHORE: Annually an estimated one million pregnant Pakistani women are
physically abused at least once during pregnancy by their partners.)

We know, according to the authentic hadiths, that according to the Prophet Muhammad, women are equal (in destroying a man's prayer) as a dog or a donkey.
(Volume 1, Book 9, Number 490: Sahih Bukhari )

And any sane person knows that you must discipline dogs and donkeys, so why not your wives? This is what so-called Western “feminists” don’t seem to understand, and why they are most in need of Islamic discipline to correct their errant and poisonous opinions.

What these so-called “feminists” should do is educate themselves in Islam and understand their place in society. In fact, the information on their status in Islam, according to Allah has already been fully investigated by scholars and imams who know Allah’s ETERNAL plan for woman and their submission.

This was recently codified by
The Council of Islamic Ideology (CII) in Pakistan.
The CII has declared the term ‘gender equality’, used in Section 7(a) of the National Commission for Status of Women Ordinance of 2000, ‘vague and un-Islamic’ and called for its repeal!

. I hope this post has been instructional for Muslims’ and Infidels (soon to be Muslim wone way or another) as well.

Also, Muslims please feel free to leave any useful information or tips, or instruments have you found work in maintain discipline of your wives.

I am sure that Muslim and Infidels alike are SATISFIED by the JUSTICE that is Islam and will strive to Beat their wives in the manner similar to that of the Apostle (or take their beating in the manner of the CHILD BRIDE Aisha).


Anonymous said...

OMG, do you see whats taking place in Syria? Despite a brutal government crackdown, the manifestations continue

Anonymous said...

wow... you are a truly disgusting human being...

Anonymous said...

All of the above makes it a disgrace to call myself a muslim!

The Mufa'khathat Lover said...

The Glory that is Islam is VAST.
However, all of the points made are documented and linked to.

If you have trouble with the post, then take it to Allah the Magnificent, and not me.

I don't make the ETERNAL RULES of Islam.

He does.

Anonymous said...

I know there is no way around Quran 4:34 as Allah knows best. However Allah also said if a man abuses his rights he is not the best among them. Yes sometimes a woman needs to be guided as she is a different creature and if she is true Muslim she knows this and accepts it. The husband has his rights and the wife has hers. A loving Muslim husband does not take great pleasure in disciplining his wife. When and if the need to do so becomes necessary it should be done in privacy and not discussed with others, as well as he is not to be questioned as to why (from others) as this is his right. That being said and according to Quran he is not to hit her face he is not to leave marks bruises or break bones or cause her to bleed. He should warn her avoid sex then beat her.If she complies he should not continue to punish her. His hand a belt or paddle is sufficient and her bottom is the best place in which to not cause injury. 10 strokes the max is for serious disobediance 3-5 is a good number although it is his decision. CABLES are ABUSE and should not be tolerated at all as a good Muslim wife will submit to her punishment and if she does not and he feels he must beat her with cables then he should just divorce her. This is a way of life and Islam is a peaceful religion in which most good muslims adhere to. To abuse your wife would to be haram in the eyes of Allah.

If you are soon to be a Muslim please do your homework. Domestic violence is alive and well in every nation country religion and countless homes all over the world please do not add to the problem with your barbaric insinuations and interpretations of Muslim laws.

Men are to be the protectors of women and their households not the destruction of it. Just for the record, for the soon to be Muslim, I am a Muslim wife with a loving and protecting husband who is faithful to Islam and his wife. Some arabic words when translated may not even have a similar or equal counterpart however daraba translated means hit strike beat or spank. My husband spanks me when I deserve it he has never done so when I did not deserve. Three times in the last 2 weeks I have neglected to lock the front door of our home. We just moved to a new city in an urban area and he is concerned for my safety when he is not home. My only excuse was I simply forgot. I will not forget this again. I am posting this for all the non-Muslims and Muslims who have the wrong idea of the words meanings and process of wife discipline in Islam. My husband came home to an unlocked home with his most precious and valuable possesion (his wife) at risk... again. Yes he was angry and I knew I was wrong and he told me he was going to punish me since I had so much trouble to remember to lock the door. We talked this through in a calm and loving manner with respect for each other. I really felt guilty as I understood his feelings on this matter clearly when I imagined how I would feel if something terrible happened to him over something that could have been easily prevented. We have no children yet so privacy is not a concern. He told me he loved me and I knew he did not want to hurt me. I also knew for my sake (relieve guilt) his sake (protector and maintainer of wife & home) and the sake of honoring the laws of Allah and the Holy Quran (it is his duty). We were sitting on the couch so he gently guided me across his lap and gave me 5 very hard stinging slaps to my covered bottom with his hand then he told me to bend over the arm of the couch for the next 5. I knew this meant the belt which I hate but I guess that was the point as I was being punished. I did as he asked and he pulled his belt free from his pants and finished the spanking. Yes it hurt and my bottom was on fire but today there are no marks or bruises and as I said I will not forget to lock the door again.

Shame on any man who abuses his wife or any women no matter what his beliefs are. Everyone has someone to be accountable to and most assuridly everyone will be accountable to God/Allah.


Anonymous said...

a husband can hit his wife only very lightly. whatevr written in this article or whatever u call it is not at all true. you should learn islam before you talk about it. otherwise it would be better to keep your mouth shut.
look around you. christians beat their wives. they get drunk. same with jews and hindhus.there are muslims who just have the name. but are not really muslims. those men beat their wives to death. this happens in all religions. you neeed to open your eyes wide. and talk when you know the real thing.

Anonymous said...

just to reiterate the commrnt made by anonymous from Oct 15 2012 7:57am,and give him his just props. He is correct you need to open your eyes learn and know the real thing. Apparently you have little or no figh of Islam and are kuffar or infidel. Anyone with true figh of Islam knows it is a religion of peace. Anyone with knowledge of the worls knows spousal abuse is EVERYWHERE and it is completely unacceptable.

I pray Allah willchange your ghafla and your words will reflect a new vision of tolerance and understanding, Ameen.

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The Qur'an doesn't say half the things you claim they say. Yes the ayat are there but you have twisted their meanings to mold your own extremist interpretation. I dont know what book youre reading but it isn't the Qur'an.

I am a Muslim woman and I gaurentee you that if this nonsence were true, I would have converted a long time ago. Women are by no means oppressed by islam, and if youre brain was really in the right place you would understand that my religion advocates peace,happiness, compromise, forgiveness, redemption, etc.

I cannot even express how frustrated this article has made me. I dont understand how people who claim themselves muslims believe this nonsense. Seriously, since when is a women withholding sex or "letting her self go" grounds for divorce? Women have a CHOICE. They are protected and cherished in Islam not abused!